The Roots of Responsibility and the Wings of Independence

Maria Montessori once said, “The greatest gifts we can give our children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.”

As parents, we often wonder—what do our children truly need to thrive in life? Beyond academics, beyond sports or activities, what will help them grow into capable, kind, and confident adults? Dr. Montessori’s words give us the answer: children need both strong roots and the freedom to spread their wings.

Giving Our Children Strong Roots

Think of roots as a child’s foundation—the values and habits that will ground them for years to come. At Mindful Montessori of Old Tappan, children learn responsibility in natural, everyday ways: caring for their classroom, choosing and completing their work, and showing respect to friends and teachers. These simple acts plant the seeds of responsibility. Over time, children develop self-discipline, pride in their choices, and a deep understanding that their actions matter.

Helping Them Spread Their Wings

Independence is the other gift our children need. When children are trusted to make choices, to problem-solve, and to explore their interests, they gain confidence and courage. At Mindful Montessori, independence is encouraged in every lesson and activity. Children learn to think for themselves, to take initiative, and to feel the joy that comes from mastering something new. These are the “wings” that will help them soar into their future—whether it’s school, friendships, or life beyond the classroom.

How We Bring Montessori’s Vision to Life

At Mindful Montessori of Old Tappan, we see every child as capable, curious, and full of potential. Our classrooms are carefully prepared to nurture both responsibility and independence:

• Children take ownership of their environment, learning to care for themselves and their community.

• Teachers serve as guides, gently encouraging independence while providing the security children need to take risks and grow.

• The balance of freedom and structure ensures that children feel safe to explore while learning to make thoughtful, responsible choices.

A Gift That Lasts a Lifetime

When you choose Mindful Montessori of Old Tappan, you’re giving your child more than an education. You’re giving them strong roots—grounding them in responsibility and values—and strong wings—empowering them with independence and confidence.

These gifts will stay with them forever, shaping not just their school years, but the adults they will one day become.

✨ We warmly invite you to visit our school and see how children at Mindful Montessori grow both roots and wings every day. Schedule a tour today and experience the Montessori difference for yourself.